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| User: | nicole_meadows (12840318)
Gender in flux "I'm not a girl. I just need to be one."
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| Name: | Nicole |
| Location: | North Texas, Texas, United States |
| Bio: | Hi! I'm Nicole. Nice to meet you. If you would like to be my online friend, read on.
I maintain this journal (also on Yahoo 360) to connect with friends, share my experiences, and discuss a wide variety of interests. Sounds pretty typical but with one exception: I am a transgendered person in my mid-30's and married to a wonderful lady. I was born male, but my gender identity is a mishmash of potential with a predominantly female flavor (hint: it's got bergamot in it). I am currently exploring "how far" I need to adjust my external presentation in order to remain a happy and well-adjusted person. Every day presents me with exciting and sometimes frightening possibilities.
Renee Reyes, Lynn Conway, Donna Rose, Kate Bornstein, and many other brilliant and courageous TG people are my inspiration. Beware... my endless gushing praise borders on outright idolatry.
Disclaimer: I am a rebellious, creative, and passionate person who is not looking for a sex hookup. I want relationships with real friends, as in people who might actually dig me as a human being (and vice versa). I don't care how old you are, how young you are, or whether you are transitioning or not. If you are a like-minded indomitable spirit, leave a comment and I will add you. I will do my part to keep it fresh and interesting. It's only fair. Just be sure to read the disclaimer first.

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| Memories: | 10 entries |
| Interests: | 76: armen ra, backrubs, baroque pop, beaches, candles, cephalopods, cirque du soleil, classic arcade games, coffee after dinner, daft punk, david bowie, dinner parties, dj lighting, down comforters, drinking wine, eating sushi, eddie izzard, electrolysis, environmentalism, flamenco, foreign films, free hugs, french coffee, friendly people, ftm, gayborhoods, geeks, genderqueer, glbt, goat cheese, gothy clothes, habanero sauce, hammocks, hate crime prevention, hawaii, henry darger, honeysuckle, hot chocolate, internet everywhere, johann sebastian bach, john amaechi, kate bornstein, kind eyes, kites, kung fu movies, lace, leisurely baths, living statues, mac cosmetics, meditation, metrosexuals, mtf, pedicures, peep toe shoes, petits fours, photography, pilates, rain streaked windows, rene magritte, renee reyes, rumi, shattering the binary, siamese cats, smiles from strangers, snarky jokes, sneezing, snow skiing, snuggling, spanish guitar, star wars, sudoku, tgirls, tomboys, transgender, waterfalls, wine tastings |
| Friends: |  | 121: | abbylauren6, aborigi_gal, alice_my_chan, ambr0sia, archaeopterxy, arcticturtle, artsygirlstace, astrochild1, avonk, barjcarter, bchgrl315, becky_jayne, becomingchloe, bettycrow, bettysgrrl, birdie_numnum, chloeprince, christinascott, common_teri, commonteri, critus, cyndydee, cynthiaredcd, damedini, davinia1963, dclarion, debt23, demilautrec, donwaughesq, ehowton, emmafemme, errant_girl, eve2007, every_piece, fairy_bloom, fluffthebunny, ftmichael, garlicfiend, gender_blender, good_eeevening, halcyongirl, herglacialspeed, hestia_hermit, irishkitsune, jacki2600, jenni_last, jennyemily, jennylucky, jessie_c, jlina, josiemoon, juliaserano, kathygnome, kellinicole7, khyri, kimber_gunn, kimwaughesq, kittymink, kristencordy, lady_kerrianna, laura_leon, lifesparkles, lisalisajason, lolabadari, loriannetucson, love_nicky, luzoscura, machupicchu, madbenny, manofpan, marcassa, mark_jones_jnr, markovchainey, mb2u, mon462, moonbabyd, nicole_meadows, nightingalepen, nikhedonia, nikkidreams, nomi, nursepaine, optimiss, p1nkp1gl3t, parkeryesparker, penny1cent, pkbarbiedoll, princessleia2, prtyldy, puellavulnerata, queenbarbee, rachelkj, rebeccasf, sahara_harp, sarahs_muse, scialytic, sephiebynight, shannoncd972, shirokarasu, sinfulfreak, sj936, social_castaway, sophie_jean, sorasabi, soylentmean, srknipe, synnoveaevael, terry_terrible, thatsbunny, the_mac_danee, the_ravyn, thelemurgod, tiana_c, tidy_monster, time3, tinasim, tomakins, uncondtllove, urlgirl, vanillagenocide, zgirl_valentine |  | 11: | 360_transgender, camptrans, crossdressing, genderqueer, lj_maintenance, lj_spotlight, mtf, news, partners_of_tg, transgender, transnews |  | 2: | myhusbandbetty, xkcd_rss |
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| Mutual Friends: | 102: abbylauren6, aborigi_gal, alice_my_chan, ambr0sia, archaeopterxy, artsygirlstace, astrochild1, avonk, barjcarter, bchgrl315, becky_jayne, becomingchloe, birdie_numnum, christinascott, commonteri, critus, cyndydee, damedini, davinia1963, dclarion, debt23, demilautrec, donwaughesq, ehowton, emmafemme, errant_girl, eve2007, every_piece, fairy_bloom, fluffthebunny, garlicfiend, good_eeevening, halcyongirl, herglacialspeed, hestia_hermit, jacki2600, jenni_last, jennyemily, jennylucky, jessie_c, kathygnome, kellinicole7, khyri, kimber_gunn, kimwaughesq, kittymink, kristencordy, lady_kerrianna, laura_leon, lisalisajason, lolabadari, loriannetucson, love_nicky, luzoscura, machupicchu, manofpan, marcassa, mark_jones_jnr, mb2u, mon462, moonbabyd, nicole_meadows, nikhedonia, nikkidreams, nomi, nursepaine, p1nkp1gl3t, parkeryesparker, penny1cent, princessleia2, prtyldy, puellavulnerata, queenbarbee, rachelkj, rebeccasf, sahara_harp, sarahs_muse, scialytic, sephiebynight, shannoncd972, shirokarasu, sinfulfreak, sj936, social_castaway, sophie_jean, sorasabi, srknipe, synnoveaevael, terry_terrible, thatsbunny, the_mac_danee, the_ravyn, thelemurgod, tiana_c, tidy_monster, time3, tinasim, tomakins, uncondtllove, urlgirl, vanillagenocide, zgirl_valentine |
| Also Friend of: | 18: angela_in_ashes, catherine2002a, catherine_uktg, christinacd75, eringurrl, fabash, fratboydan, genderdoc, glassheart, hellionsfall, hiroka, katatoniaspike, marialila, oddinthehead, secret_tgirl, tmelrose, tracy_lovette, x2cunu |
| Member of: | 8: 360_transgender, camptrans, crossdressing, genderqueer, mtf, partners_of_tg, transgender, transnews |
| Account type: | Basic Account |